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Originally Posted by dandylion
(Post 7252877)
Teehee......there might be your "cover"....if it would be "normal" to go to the YMCA...while he is at work.....then, this could be time that you could use to talk to the dv people on the phone....or, visit, even, if you can..... Do you think that he ever follows you? or has he put a GPS on your car,do you think? I am not trying to scare you....it is just a couple of questions that I would ask anyone, in your situation. I have heard of these kinds of things happening.... Darn technology!.....makes everything easier, , these days, for those who have ill intent..... This is really good advice! Mine is a stalker and even enlists his friends to follow me. He put gps in my car and on my phone. I learned to park at the library and WALK to anywhere I needed to go. He wont dare come in....and I am a book nerd so it really works as cover for meetings and DV counseling. Could you leave your car at the YMCA and then duck out with a friend? I used to even scan myself in at the gym and then leave just in case he checked the check-in logs... |
Originally Posted by Sasha1972
(Post 7254387)
"Great dads" show respect for women and don't demean them or put them down all the time, ESPECIALLY in front of their daughters. She may well love her dad, but he is not a good parent. |
So is this what you're willing to live with? One of the hardest things for me was accepting I'm powerless over other people, including the dry or drunk alcoholic. Alanon helped me face myself and my motives in staying in a bad relationship. Nothing would change if I didn't change. |
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