Originally Posted by batchel9
(Post 7170348)
I think I also still do must have subconscious thoughts that “maybe he will change afterall” that cause it.
Originally Posted by atalose
(Post 7169839)
This man hasn’t changed into the person you always wished he’d be. This other woman doesn’t have some kind of magic powers that can change him. This act of his can only last so long before the mask falls off and reality rears its ugly head of alcoholism. The gf will in time begin to live the EXACT SAME LIFE with him as you did, probably worse as the disease progresses. |
Update: He went from happy and seemingly attempting to be involved with kids to being a no-show and sending me drunk rambling text messages. His baby is ~3 weeks old. I knew deep down the drinking wasn’t over and his state was only temporary. His poor girlfriend and parents still exist and are CLUELESSSS. It’s sad really. |
Originally Posted by batchel9
(Post 7185694)
Update: He went from happy and seemingly attempting to be involved with kids to being a no-show and sending me drunk rambling text messages. His baby is ~3 weeks old. I knew deep down the drinking wasn’t over and his state was only temporary. His poor girlfriend and parents still exist and are CLUELESSSS. It’s sad really. Rejoice that you are free of the insanity. Put on a fancy dress and dance around a campfire. Feel bad for the new mom. Even if she "stole your life". It wasn't her... it was him. He chose the booze. You had no choice but to free yourself. Be confident in that decision. You've chosen well. |
Well that was predictable. Sad though yes, from your children's viewpoint and of course for the new baby. Clueless? Maybe on the outside, just like those posts on facebook. How are you feeling now batchel? I hope the last few weeks have been better for you despite all this. |
Originally Posted by dandylion
(Post 7168368)
I just had a bizarre thought.....I sometimes, watch the show on tv.."Sister Wives".....and, I always wonder....how in the world do those women handle that?! |
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