Heya Smarie, no matter how long it takes, if you can do the right thing, please do it.

From my own experience, the pain was so great in leaving my qualifier, that I have no judgement for folks who don't leave or who take a long time. The pain was psychedelic. No one should go through this. I did and it humbled me beyond words.

Peace to all.

There's always today!!!

Wow this post really touched me. Thank you for sharing.