Thanks for all the support. At this point it has been 5 days since I last saw him. he has been sleeping at his mother's, but still hasn't called me. I was robbed yesterday, and will leave a message with his mother this am saying that I really need him to come home, but at this point, I doubt that will happen. I doubt I will even see him before Christmas. His job has given him exactly one week, which will be up on Monday, to get his act together or he is fired. I doubt he will by that time. What a waste.

Is this something was stolen from your house or is this someone took things from you personally?

Your friend,

Welcome to the SR family!

I am sorry for what you are going through. You have had a lot of drama in the last few days.

Based on your post, it appears that your bf is on a continued binge that has put his job at risk, right? And it appears his family is enabling by giving him a soft place to land.

Alcoholism is a progressive dis-ease. Untreated, it gets worse.

I hope you will stick around and keep reaching out for strength and support. We are here for you.

(((gentle hugs)))

Get out NOW. Trust and listen to people here. You are lucky you still can get out without children. Save yourself heart ache, misery, lonilness, extra., it only gets worst. I am just starting my divorce process after there years of active alcoholism.

Megan, the reason I asked my question is you may need to change you locks. Actually you probably should change your locks. Active Alcoholic can and will due very stupid things like breaking into a partners apartment to scare or punish them.

I am sorry you are going through this I wish you the best.

Your friend,