From Cali?
I just signed with one from there *LOL*
Does that mean I get a free house? *LOL*

As for telling him off....Did you do so in soft, gentle tones?
I never did like that. The soft gentle tones always said to me...she is detatched and really means it this time. Sure made me think a time or two.

Agree best, whispers carry more weight then yelling. Soft and gentle very good.

Opps!

My wife left for work before I took stuff out of the jeep.
She took notice of the cement bag but didn't notice any of the other stuff?
Maybe I need to change my ways a little more or sleep with one eye open *LOL*

Best, watch out!
The meeting is over, they asked us to hang inthere for a few more days and they should have more to tell us. Just more air blown up our @ss

Oh I HATE that. Just a few more days to stress out about job security... whee.

I wish I had a crystal ball, or someone to tell me what I need to do! I'm so tired of thinking and making decisions

Does it help to know that you don't have to decide everything today? That some decisions can be put off until you're better able to handle them? It's not much, I know, but it's all I've got. (((kermit)))

All, that is very sweet..but no it doesn't help..love you

Right back at ya, kermie. (())

Kermit,

You really have to stop giving such power to him.
He is in stuff now and you are in yours, Yes we all go through a lot at first to rearrange our lives but we now have that freedom also.
You will get though this and it’s not really doing any good to vent to him, he is gone.
Let go and Let God.

i understand, too, kermie....i get tired sometimes of trying so hard to be well. it's a lot of work. there's days i just want to take a break from recovery and just be. but it's too late. i can't stop thinking about what the next right thing is to be.

Im a Realtor and I know your pain, cus its my pain too. We are all hurting in this market, but hang in there....THIS TOO SHALL PASS!
IT ALWAYS DOES!!

Move to Miami..its warm, sunny and we got great al-anon here!