Too funny ... you may just be right. :haha:

I have not known or dated him long enough to be too torn apart by it. I also did not change my lifestyle at all so Im still dating and spending time with friends..... I just thought he was special is all and would have liked to explore a closer relationship.

Just not ment to be, no harm no foul.

Isn't it grand, though, to be able to feel that? I'm still sorry it didn't go as you hoped, Cynay, but knowing I can still feel hope is wonderful. I worried at the beginning that I'd have to shut down if only to protect myself.

((()))

I sure hope you dont shut down hon.

He was wonderful in alot of ways and Im sure had we been able to spend more time that I would only have discovered other more charming parts of his personality.... I enjoyed his company very much and he welcomed me into his childrens lives as well. But honestly I would not have done anything differently, well maybe a few things but I dont regret having hope and trying.

He made the decision he was uncomfortable with the relationship, Did not feel we were compatable enough to make a go of it, nothing to be done about that, we talked about it and I was able to try and work it out but like I said it just was not ment to be and that is ok, because every time I date or explore the possibilities of a relationship it gets better and better....

SO.... soon I should meet Antonio and live happily ever after :lmao

Antonio B? He's Mr. Co-dependent! Wait, would that be a good thing or a bad thing?

Ok... think about it.

Two people that stumble all over each other to please the other person!!!!

OMG..... I need to get to an Al-anon meeting :lmao

But be careful alot of the guys in Al-anon are double winners.

And they'd love to get to third base. I'm pretty sure most of them came out of the woodwork fairly early. I think it's how they work :c005:

CoDA is the same.... lots of double winners.