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Mountainmanbob 08-11-2013 04:02 AM

once the recovering drunk finally realizes
 
what they have truly been saved from
possible death, loss of loved ones, friends, personal property etc.
it seems that for many they will not have a clue or a desire
to be and stay sober

when I sobered up this last time around
I was in a deep fog for months
until my thinking cleared up
it would have been easy to try what I call some controlled drinking
even though it had never worked for me in the past
yes - the drunks mind and thoughts can be very deceiving
no one in my life has deceived me more than myself

I think that what has been of great help for me in my recovery is
working and sharing in AA, with my sponsor and on sites such as this
seeing the ones who struggle for so long
trying to get and stay sober
a gift that many never seem to attain

as many here know
I had a friend in recovery here where I live
die just a while back with a bottle in his hand
he was the latest of many who I have seen die to the bottle

once the recovering drunk
realizes what they have truly been saved from
a terrible life married to booze and the effects of
at times they seem not to have a clue
and many will return to their vomit

(Proverbs 26:11 ESV)
Like a dog that returns to his vomit
is a fool who repeats his folly.

it's what makes one grateful
knowing that
by the grace of God there go I


many here on site have complained when I center my threads or posts
if this is your only complaint of the day
you have had a good day

Mountainmanbob




instant 08-11-2013 04:27 AM

Looks like we are both having a good day!!! Thanks for the post

UnixBer 08-11-2013 04:31 AM

That's a great post and rings true.
Many of us propably have had loved ones die due to using alcohol or other drugs.

My best friend committed suicide. And he was drunk at the time. It is most evident to me that alcohol can make anyone confused, depressed and in a dark/strange place that appears to be reality but is nothing of a kind.
This friend of mine was not a suicidal person. Never really complained about anything.

And just about all this. I can too see what went wrong with the past. It was the alcohol and I can clearly see that without it, things would've inevitably worked out. Then I have friends whose close friends have died of OD'ing and drinking too much. Alcohol is destructive. It is poison.

Junegirl 08-11-2013 03:21 PM

This is really really awesome, Mountainmanbob, especially the part about the dog that returns to his vomit...Yes, but for the grace of God...

I love your writing and the centering of the posts myself. :) Keep it coming, Mmb!

June

Mountainmanbob 01-21-2014 08:02 AM


Originally Posted by Junegirl (Post 4117856)
This is really really awesome, Mountainmanbob, especially the part about the dog that returns to his vomit...Yes, but for the grace of God...

I love your writing and the centering of the posts myself. :) Keep it coming, Mmb!

June

Proverbs 26:11
Like the dog that returns to his vomit
is a fool who repeats his folly.

concordance
Prov. 26:11 It is folly to turn back from following Christ (2 Pet. 2:22).

2 Peter 2:22
What the true proverb says has happened to them: “The dog returns to its own vomit, and the sow, after washing herself, returns to wallow in the mire.”

concordance
2 Pet. 2:20–22 It would have been better for these false teachers never to have escaped the world in the first place, than to follow in the path of the knowledge of … Christ only to abandon that path and return to a life of sin and darkness. One reason it is better not to have known about the holy commandment is that those who turn away after falsely confessing the Christian faith will not be inclined to consider Christ again. Another reason is that their knowledge and experience of the Christian life makes them more accountable before God (cf. Luke 12:47–48). Some understand these verses to teach that true believers can lose their salvation. It is more likely that Peter refers to those who appeared to be Christians but then showed by their apostasy and their behavior that they never truly belonged to Christ (see notes on John 6:66; 15:2; Gal. 2:3–4; 1 John 2:19). God promises that those who truly know him will never fall away because he will keep them by his grace (cf. John 10:27–29; Rom. 8:28–39; Phil. 1:6). Those who do turn back show that their true character is like that of a dog (cf. Prov. 26:11) or a sow. They appeared to have been saved, but by returning to the vomit and mire of the world, they demonstrated that they were never truly regenerated.

karate 01-21-2014 08:43 AM

The most successful man I ever knew died of liver failure
Alcohol caused it .

He owned 10-15,000 acres and had millions of $

It got him , no exemptions granted .

afloatsober 01-21-2014 08:55 AM

He, he Bob.
Center away fellow!!! Compared to the problems my drinking caused me that is truly a minor one......
And well said. Some of us pursue our 'right to drink' to the gates of insanity or death.
Sober we can at least be available with our experience and hope if someone truly wishes to avoid that prospect.
Just for today.
G

Brian316 01-22-2014 04:45 PM

Amen Mountainmanbob

1newcreation 01-22-2014 04:55 PM

Amen brother! Awesome post

Mountainmanbob 02-04-2014 04:27 PM


Originally Posted by karate (Post 4422292)

The most successful man I ever knew died of liver failure
Alcohol caused it


success is not appreciated by the drunk ones
they die just as easily to the drink as the ones who had next to nothing

Mountainman

LadyBlue0527 02-04-2014 04:34 PM

Love this:


once the recovering drunk
realizes what they have truly been saved from
a terrible life married to booze and the effects of
at times they seem not to have a clue
and many will return to their vomit
Takes a lot of hard work but that is eventually seen. You don't really realize just how sad and desperate you were until you've managed to get some good and happy distance from it. I'm amazed at how much of my life I spent fighting so hard to keep doing something that was entirely worthless that sucked the very life out of me that I thought it gave me.

Thanks for the post!

Mountainmanbob 02-04-2014 04:40 PM


Originally Posted by LadyBlue0527 (Post 4450779)
I'm amazed at how much of my life I spent fighting so hard to keep doing something that was entirely worthless that sucked the very life out of me that I thought it gave me.

you are so right LadyBlue
after some good sobriety time
as I look back today on my drinking years
it seems as though I was in a daily battle back then
didn't even realize it at the time
I had gotten used to the pain and sorrow that came with the drink
I feel today like one returning from fighting in the Middle East
for me -- the war is over

Mountainman

Raider 02-04-2014 05:05 PM

Amen.

MamaGoat 02-04-2014 08:37 PM

Love your Avatar MountainmanBob! :)

Mountainmanbob 02-04-2014 09:24 PM


Originally Posted by MamaGoat (Post 4451272)
Love your Avatar MountainmanBob! :)

yes that's our goats there I like your goats too have a good day Mountainman

anyistoomuch 02-05-2014 05:37 AM


Originally Posted by Mountainmanbob (Post 4116926)


once the recovering drunk
realizes what they have truly been saved from
a terrible life married to booze and the effects of
at times they seem not to have a clue
and many will return to their vomit


it's what makes one grateful
knowing that
by the grace of God there go I



MB - thanks for these words. This truth is resonating with me right now. The idea of being "married to booze" is frightening, but it is what it is really all about. People who are in the midst of their addiction - can they see that they have let their relationship with alcohol has become the most important relationship in their life? Even though it takes everything from you - your health, your wellness, your money, your clarity, the feeling of your own two feet on the ground of this planet - active alcoholics choose alcohol over better relationships with others, or themselves.

I was very much upset because some of us on here are posting about their abusive relationships. For some reason your phrase "married to the booze" keeps reminding me of these posts.

on a lighter note - if I could have one of those little pygmy goats, I would. I could listen to them make their little "maaaaas" all day, all night. LOVE them.

Mountainmanbob 04-07-2014 04:23 AM

saved from the grip of the liquid devil
MM

Mountainmanbob 04-26-2014 07:19 AM

once the recovering drunk finally realizes
 
that they need not suffer anymore with the drink

and

that the war is over

peace and serenity come upon them as with a rising morning sunrise

MM

LaVallette 04-27-2014 11:00 PM

Amen.

Mountainmanbob 05-11-2014 06:58 AM

today I realize
what a war zone (battle of mind and soul) that I was in while drinking and drugging
deceived myself back then into thinking
it was normal to break hearts, go to jail, get stiches, called on the carpet at work,
crash cars and motor homes, cuss people out, get into fights -- the list goes on and on

today serenity has been found -- the war has been over for some time now

so very grateful

M-Bob


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