Hey Osier, welcome back!
Sounds like you have been busy!
Can I ask how long you've been dating him and what exactly your feelings are towards him? He sounds a bit rigid to me. I always thought a good relationship was give and take with a little compromise thrown in for good measure but by both parties not just one.
I really don't have any words of wisdom for you but if you aren't that involved with him yet, play the field, have some fun.
I hope things work out for the best if you care for him alot. Just thought I'd give you my 2 cents
Take care.
Many hugs,
Debbie
And please feel free to whine and complain any time, I do quite often!!