Originally Posted by Jazzman
Well you communicated a boundary and attempted to negotiate a peace offering all in one. Curious to see if he takes you up on your offer. I can't pretend to know what would be wrong and what would be right for your situation. I would caution you to think that your attention is all he needs to be a nicer guy though.
I don't believe that all he needs is my attention to be a nicer guy. I believe that HE thinks this is the root of the problem. You are right...it's kind of a last ditch peace offering. I feel we are at an impass and I was trying to at least attempt to get around it.
If anyone has any suggestions as to how to better handle this, please let me know. I'm willing to listen