Hi laura - and the rest of yous. I'm glad we can have this conversation too.
My thinking on it -- to me it doesn't matter whether it's a choice or not. It's my business. I know, that if there is a God......he loves me just the way I am. I'm a wonderful person who loves everyone equally. I've got a big heart and great morals. I know I'm a good person. Gay or not.
The best thing is that I'm in Love with the person (woman) of my dreams and I really don't care if other's think I'm a horrible person for it. They can go pray for me all they want......thank you I say.
In a way - acting on your true gay feelings is a choice, some others choose to commit suicide instead of acting on them. It's such a horrible thing not to feel loved my your family, etc. Luckily I didn't have that problem but I know a lot that were disowned. Craziness I say.
I'm gay and I'm in love and God loves me.
(((((((hugs to you all))))))
~doll