Im also with Carol and Jupiter.
Making amends,has nothing at all to do with the other person,how they respond,etc,,etc..Or wanting anything from them at all.To have no expectaions,on my part..To be ready to recieve the conquences of my actions.Its about my amends,to them,my,being sincere,.Hopefully they will forgive me,and if they do,thats a blessing and a bonus.But i cant have any expectations,or hopes that all will be well.Because some folks,cant or wont forgive.Some hurt so much,from my actions,of my past,for which i am responsible,whether drunk or sober,that after making my sincere,amends to them,i pray for their peace of mind and heart.