2many
What a chore for you!!! Good luck with the experiment!! Its always good for us "panic attack" people to have plans...Please keep running your alternative plan through your mind and fine tune it...get comfortable with it..then if it comes down to it, it wont be so bad.
Above all else, please keep yourselves safe..you deserve to live where there is no one being hurt emotionally or physically. I will never foreget how scared I was when I left with 3 kids..but I am so glad that I did. I really wish you all of the luck in the world in your relationship.
Love in spirit
Sky