Liddy:
Sorry I don't have any miracle cures up my sleeve. If I did, I be sure to attach one in an email to you, as well as everyone else.
Marking things by dates on the calendar is something I do too often for bad things and not good things.
I remember the dates when loved ones died, but forget to remember the anniversary dates when good things happened.
I'm sorry that it's your daughter who's alcohol dependent. Those of us with spouses and boyfriends who drink can always end the relationship. How can a person end a relationship with their own flesh and blood?
Although it seems like deja vu, remember it's not. Every morning, your daughter, like the rest of us has an opportunity to do things differently. And likewise for her husband, and you too.
As Billy Joel sings "the good old days weren't always so good, and tomorrow's not as bad as it seems".
Hoping that you find some fun and enjoyment,
EyesOpen