Grace:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...013-grace.html
I hope this helps somewhat. I didn't read it all..... it seems a rather intermediate read for someone who just wants to know
"Why??"
I do think a lot of good events happen as a result of terrible ones. They unify people. Grace seems like the answer for accepting these occurrences..... which I think is really what it's all about rather than trying to understand
why bad things happen. I understand Grace. I just can't put it into words. So don't mind me.