___Craven County Council on Women, Inc.
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http://www4.coastalnet.com/community...orgs/cccw/ New Bern_NC 252-638-5995_
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__Domestic Violence amd Child Abuse Services Alamance County_NC (910) 226-5985_
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__Domestic Violence Services Lexington_NC (704) 249-8974__
__Family Services, Inc
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http://www.familyserv.org/ Winston-S...336-722-4457__
__OASIS Watunga County_NC (704) 262-5035__
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__REACH Cherokee County_NC (704) 837-8064__
__The Shelter Charlotte_NC (704) 332-2513_
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__Victim Assistance/Rape Crisis
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http://www.unitedfamilyservices.com/ Charlotte_NC (704) 375-9900_
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__Women's Shelter High Point_NC (910) 841-8255__
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2many... please make the call. And please don't stay in the same house with someone who is threatening you with violence. If he can say it, he can visualize it. If he can visualize it he can do it. It doesn't matter that he's sick or chemically impaired. Why is not the issue. We can feel sorry for him later. The issue is safety. These crisis organizations exist because people aren't always safe taking time to make arrangements. If the windup starts again, put the kids and his mom in the car and drive. If you don't drive call a cab or the cops. But don't be available to be hurt.... please.
It's in the nature of codependents to overreact, but this is not a time for sitting around and evaluating your motivations. Better to find out you were overreacting from a distance than underreacting in proximity.
Hugs,
Smoke