Originally Posted by jackson123
He thinks I am turning my back on him. I am actually.
I know how hard it is. He has to do it on his own. For himself. If you mean it, tell him you will be there when he gets sober. If he uses this as an excuse to not get sober, you will know that he isn't serious about it.
I don't think you are turning your back on him. You are allowing him the dignity to make his own choices and get well. Your priorities - you and your children - are straight.
Hang in there.