I am trying to do just taht now. Not necessarily forever, but as long as it takes for us to both straighten out. Ive been married 3 years to an active alcoholic and addict. The last 18 months he's been involved with court ordered recovery and spent 4 months and then 4 more months in rehabs The last 2 months it sbeen good days and bad days. This weekend it hit me, Im tired of always being prepared for anything, tired of not being able to rely on whether he was even going to be around. Last nite he went out and did not come home. Im okay with taht, but it gave me time to think and I decided that Im tired of teh craziness and I just dont want him to come home.
He's the one calling and yelling that Im giving up on us, Im giving up on him ect