Jess,
I always wondered when enough would be enough for me. What would it take?
When he thought I was out of town on a project he moved another woman in (tried to hide it from me)......but he did me the biggest favor by making that choice for me.
I understand your relief at it being his choice. Now, if you can just remind yourself often as you need to of his choice.....
I had to use my hurt pride, my anger, my revenge to say OKAY...I am going my way now and it does not include you. And hang out at SR a lot.
And as dear Ben Franklin said: Living well is the best revenge. That was my mantra for awhile.
hug,
live