How about asking your husband yourself? Doesn't his opinion matter? You say he's going to therapy, he's trying to fix the problem, obviously. What strikes me is that you're talking like 'we gonna put him on meds'. No, he'll put himself on meds, or not. And if he thinks he'll get addicted to the meds, or he has the opinion he doesn't need them, he got all right to and you can't force him.