Patty when I think of some of the things I've done, not with my H while he was drinking, but with other A's I've been involved with .... well, now I just shake my head in amazement and wonder why I wasn't committed to some room with rubber walls! Yikes .....
I think many of us have been where Melissa is and understand it. It hurts me knowing what I know now, however I am intelligent enough to know it's something she needs to go through.
There, now that wasn't rude was it? LOL