Welcome dswife
If you want, you can start your own thread and perhaps get more replies
I'm sorry to hear you are going through rough times. If your husband is binge drinking and also attending AA (in the past), then the few beers probably won't be fine. Only you know. But true sobriety does not allow for a few beers.
I have found Al-Anon very helpful in my recovery, as well as one on one counseling. Everything in my life started getting better when I put the focus on me and my recovery.
Good luck to you and hope to see you back often posting.