You know Judy, I never thought about it but *I* do that. I didn't realize it was common but now, I realize lots of us here do that. I'll explain something and then not realize just how messed up it is....ya'll show me just how unhealthy it is and I have tried to back track. I do it with my ah as well....once he starts in, I take back so much of what I say. It's frustrating because you feel as if you can't express yourself correctly, I feel that way a lot. Truth is, I probably express myself just fine....but my feelings and facts get all confused in my head and before you know it, I don't know what's up or down.
thank goodness the cobwebs are slowly being swept.
Jess, you don't know what you want or how to get it.....I've been there, still am many days.