Yes Deettah- you did what made YOU feel better and that is the important thing. It is amazing to me how little regard for themselves they have. How can they possibly love anyone or anything else??? I think you did well by not responding to the text. He wants you to respond. It's part of the cycle and part of the addiction dance.
I just heard my AH tonight say to his friend how he "would drink liquor again if it were the 'right' occassion." That is what landed him in jail and the ER for crying out loud. Some people don't have a bottom. It's sad, but very true.