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Old 06-01-2006, 09:04 PM
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greenapplecider
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Is this addict/alcoholic behavior?

Well Kathy is hanging in there somewhat after our latest "tiff" the other night.
We took daughter out for dinner last night and as we were leaving Kathy said wow i really feel the cravings, i used to come here to this restaurant after drinking. Well we went to her house and she went to bed, I stayed up and worked on cleaning house for a showing of the house (it is for sale) this afternoon. Well she was quite lethargic, and anxious, and depressed and as the day went on seemed a bit better. Well then she dropped me off at my house at 5:00 pm.....sent me a text telling me thank you so much for all your help with the house, i dunno what i d have done without you.


2 hours later she goes on a texting rampage accusing me of lying to her and breaking a promise and "her instincts are telling her i am lying and that i should just come clean with her now cause if she finds out i was lying she is leaving".

i called her and said i realize you are stressed, overwhelmed with alot of stuff and depressed, anxious, etc but there is no need to take it out on me.
I ve kept up my end of the bargain, no more lying etc and that i love her and if she needs a hug or to talk or get coffee etc that she can call and tell me t hat but that her accusations insulted me and hurt me and she had no right to say those things to me.

A little bit after the voice mail i got a text asking if it was still storming outside?

I said yes and wished she was here to watch (we like to watch storms)
and asked if she had cravings.

I ve not heard anything since.

help?
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