Oh Mega! I'm so sorry. Isn't it amazing how they all sound the same???? I swera the more I read, the more all of our's A's spew the SAME crap at us! Just goes to show you how wide reaching and destructive A is. If I could hop in my car and come get you I would. You baby, deserve soooo much better. We all do! I know exactly what you are talking about when you say it's hard to keep you lips buttoned. I am always one to debate or try to defend and that is so out of my realm I am amazed that it's been acomplished, though sometimes I fail miserably.