Even though you all got the "official thanks," I cannot help but thank you all right here.
Dolly- I appreciate it and I hope your ex has not given you any trouble since he got out of rehab. He's a piece of work himself.
Thanks DG and man-o-man I wish we could take a 10 coffee break together!
Anguished- thank you so much and I'm sure all of the hate he spews is just to cover up his own fears and insecurities. It probably pacifies his own sense of guilt in the matter (if he even has any- I'm beginning to wonder). His words are really just quacking to me, but man--- he's getting on my nerves!