Ditto, Mega. Don't listen to his words - that's all they are - words, and coming from someone w/ obvious 'issues' - they don't mean anything. He's just saying that to hurt you (but you knew that.) Must be hard to listen to, and my prayers are w/ you for some kinda serenity. Is there somewhere you can to go chill out and get away from him? Wish we lived closer - I'd meet you for coffee - FOR 10 HOURS!
You hang in there - you're worth more than that.
-DG