Sorry Denny tough love is the hardest. There are lists of dead women,men and children who stayed in bad situations. I'm glad you've never been put in that position. My children were not accidents. I raised them to make sound judgements and to live up to their potential. A person can't have it both ways. Do you want me in or out of your life? If you bring your situation to my door step, I will address the business on my doorstep. My questions rremain unanswered.