Welcome Ujean.. Glad you found this site, it is the greatest ever.
Do you attend Al-Anon meetings?? We need both Al-Anon and here.
This is just my opinion, but when drunk driving is involved I would feel I am protecting myself by doing the driving. Perhaps he could call a buddy to pick him up to go and the buddy drive him home.???
This is different, most men are sure they can drive, and no one can talk them out of it.
I am not much help today, others will reply, I just wanted to say glad you found us.
Keep coming back.