Originally Posted by deettah
Why is it that I feel like the only people that understand any of this are on this forum. I try to talk to my best friend, who BTW grew up in an alcoholic home, and she doesn't seem to understand, now my mother. It is so frustrating that the people I want to lean on I don't feel like I can.
I know what you mean. When I got serious about my recovery, I quickly learned to stop wanting other people to be there for me in ways they could not. Your best friend has her own issues probably. Your mom - well, she's your mom. Seek out those who will help you get where you want to be (and that doesn't always mean agree with you all the time). You need people around you who understand what you're going through. Everyone else in your life can still be important, but don't waste too much time trying to get them to "understand." Work on yourself.