Well it didn't take 3 days guys. It took about 3 hours. He came to the house feeling terrible because his sponsor told him what an unhealthy thing he had done. I gave him a copy of that excerpt from The Language of Letting Go called "Wait" and he took it hard. He left here a mess but he didn not ask for forgivness. Infact he said he knew that he didn't deserve and wouldn't ask for it. I told him to go call his sponsor and that I would support his getting healthy but not at the cost of mine and that I would not be here waiting.