No Fun, Welcome to SR, so glad you found us, this is the greatest site ever.
Read lots of the threads, read sticky's at the top and the power posts.
Please let me say, Al-Anon helps in every area of our lives, it teaches us how to find peace, stop feeling so angry and so hopeless and helpless, no matter what the alcoholic does. Really worth trying some meetings.
This might be a slow time of the day for replys, we shall see??
Keep coming back, you are not alone.