I like the letter idea, I have done it B/4, yet rather than throw them away immediately after written. I kept them, put them in my safety deposit box, a place I go to very seldom. After a period of time, I'd get the letter out, reread it, and toss it. Many times I thought, what were you thinking girl! Time had passed, I was living my life again, I was happy, I was whole.
Embrace your new life, let go of the past. The past should serve as a guidepost, not a
hitching post.
I am so very happy for you!
Dolly