My opinion is the more help someone can get the better. Of course, that is only relevant if the person getting the help actually wants it. This is a case of "if you love something, set it free." Because if she actually wants to make this better, you must get out of the way and let her. If it is meant to be, it will. No amount of time or contact can change that. Try to be patient and take the time to work on you. It will be better for all if you can.