Can you be forced to stay at detox? if you can,,,, I'm first in line with my AH. I fear if he goes in, he can check himself out again.
Spider: Evidently she admitted to being an alcholic and is willing to see this through?
I would be so proud of her if this is the case. I can't imagine my AH even taking that first step.
I do go to al-anon and that is why I am still here. If you now have the time... find a home meeting that you like. They help so much on their own experiences and knowledge. If you can, go to several meetings a week. At least do 6 of them. Alanon teaches you to take care of yourself.
Good Luck to you and your Girlfriend.