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I]"There are still lots of dysfunctional people in my life..you can't escape that - but today I have many more tools to deal with them..and to keep myself at peace and happy..even if they arent."[/I]
I like what you had to say there,minx1969, I have lots of dysfunctional people also, family, and you just need to find the tools to learn to deal with them when you have to. (TO: longatthi
..... what is normal to one person may be abnormal to another. And you can never go back and have things exactly as they were but you can put it behind you and keep making things better.