Originally Posted by long at this
you are codependant, controlling,an enabler,a martyr and so on because you are married to an alcohlic.
I was all of these things already. They just came right out in the open under those particular circumstances.
Originally Posted by long at this
I want to love freely and have an opinion.
And so you can. What's stopping you?
I was shattered to the core by my experience. Nothing will ever be the same again and trying to find my place in the world when I see it though different eyes is tough. However, it is slowly coming together and my life is altogether more enriching, even if it does feel like wading through treacle on a regular basis.