Aww, Hopie. What a punk!! Want me to come down there and kick some jerk-butt?!
I'm sorry, sweetie. You're too beautiful inside and out to tolerate that. I agree w/ the one post that maybe this will give you final closure(?) If he was nasty, that's HIS problem! Some people, when they feel guilt or responsibility, turn it around on the person that doesn't deserve it. I have a brother that acts like that ALL the time. Instead of saying "I'm sorry I hurt you", he acts 10 times worse so he won't feel bad. REAL grown up, huh? (Oh, and my brother will be 50 next year!!)
Put this behind you, along w/ him. If he is that shallow, he'll get what's coming to him. Name ONE self-respecting woman who would tolerate that...yep....I can't name one either.
You keep your pretty head up, honey. REAL friends would never do that to you.
Love,
DG