And maybe it gave you the final closure you needed to really move on, no? I spoke with my ex, who is a coke addict, a few months ago when he got out of jail (again). He was clean, mainly I think because he's on house arrest for 6-23 for the last probation violation of a series of hot urines. Anyway, my point was, I only allowed him to call me because his mother said he'd been wanting to, and I thought, well who am I to stand in the way of someone if they want to make amends and move on? Not so....he's pretty much the same arrogant schmo that he was when he was using....the drugs may be gone, but the attitude is not. I didn't have any ideas about getting back together, but that conversation showed me that I made the right decision leaving in the first place. NOW I finally have closure. Hopefully that's what this was for you too!!!
Good luck with the new place....and congrats, you're doing great! How long is it now?