Trust me, that will change and he is changing the rules of the game right now. You be careful, and although you are full of **** and vinegar right now and blustery with your words, he is changing the rules of the game .... he is a dangerous man and don't you think for one single second he isn't ..... he has major problems from rage, to alcoholism and drug addiction.
I will be careful Judy. There is no one yet that I have found that can take in the cat. I know that it sounds really stupid to many of you that I'm so concerned over this cat, but I have NO family here except for his and she is my companion. I cannot afford to kennel her for a month+ and that would be super traumatic for her anyway.
What fills me with **** and vinegar the most is the fact that my entire demeanor in my own home is being dictated by all this. I really feel that playing nice and quietly going about my OWN plans is the best way here. Anything else would just cause some other tidal wave.