Originally Posted by elizabeth1979
Accept your situation for what it is. Don’t make excuses for the alcoholic or yourself. Don’t sugarcoat your reality, for it is what it is. Continue reading all you can get your hands on concerning codependence and
Love that bit about reality...It took me a long time to take my blinders off with my exabf and accept reality..
and you know what..when I did that..I found out that being with an alcoholic was not acceptable to me..