Is Being Introspective A Stage?
I myself and others I have communicated with recently seem to be going through a quiet and introspective time right now while on the fence with our As. I haven't posted any new threads about my daily goings-on in a while b/c to me they are not worth mentioning. I've just been really watching my AH's actions and asking myself the "hard" questions. I feel I'm making a sort of silent progress in my own mind.
Did any of you that are past daily life with an A ever going through this while still living with him or her? Is this considered "a stage of recovery"? If so, what did you learn from that stage of recovery? How did it help you or hurt you?