Hey sunshine and all who commented.
I'm just reminded of my own defects and all i can add is thank God
my husband (he is not the A in my life) does not comment everytime i revert to my old habits,usualy when i'm overtiered or stressed. Like nagging or getting myself in a hyper mode.
with that said I cant imagine the over poweringness of the addiction that caused them to lie or steal.
I am not judging anyone reaction just commenting on the nature of my own backsling moments !
take care sunshine !
Love you
liddy