should I contact my gf's father to assist in detox
she's 27 and in deathly fear of seeking assistance from the state, she's tried self detox with my assistance three times but shortly reverts back to drinking every day and not eating, rum is her drink of choice...I cant afford to send her to a private detox center but I know her father can, he does not know of her condition and I'm not sure if I should inform him or when I should. As it stands right now she's disconnected her phone and I cant get hold of her. She's done this a few times before and every time I rush over to her apartment she's fine but I cause such a commotion banging on her door I'm afraid I'll get arrested...looking for advice...thanks