That makes sense JT. The more I have to accept, the more I can accept. I think though there has to be some risk involved too. If I were to continue to care for his every need there wouldn't be as much acceptance needed. The more I let go, the more acceptance is needed. I guess prayer and faith takes over from there.
I'm not there yet so I'll just put myself back in today and work with it a day at a time.
Hugs to all,
MG