Brittany,
you made it much clearer for me. thank you
i guess i understand the co-dependancy thing, but still have a hard time digesting some of it. i tend to think co-ds are nice people, generous people, caring people that have been taken advantage of and hurt
i guess it is all a matter a bounderies...setting them for ourselves so that we dont fall into the same situation again. but i will not stop being generous and caring...personally i think thats what life is all about. maybe that makes me a textbook co-d but i dont care *lol*
its my spiritual belief that we are here to contribute, do for others, spread joy, give help etc etc
if that makes me a victom of the co dependancy disease then so be it