codependancy
I just recantly learned and admitted that i am a codependant, It is hard for me to be with out people in my life, and being a codependant is also hurting people in my life, it realy helps to know that there are people out there that have this same problem, I need to know how to over come it. please give me some advice.
I live with my fiance' and he is the one who brought it to my attention that i am a codependat, he wants me to move out, not break up, but move out so that he can get his life more stable, he says i am hurting him buy not moving out, and buy taking care of him. he is a full time college student and i feel a responsiblity to take care of him. when i should be taking care of my 4 year old daughter, instead of my parents. my parents hate him. and i can't stand that fact. please i need help and advice.