Thank you............I just copied this and sent it to my 23yr old son. The A in our life is AH; his father.
Son and daughter are glad I come here, I know because they see it helping me and MY sickness was effecting them as much or more as AH's is.
Thank you all for your help. I still have a very long way to go, but I am heading in the right direction now.
Hugs to you all!