A year ago I would have told you NO.... NEVER AGAIN.
But you know what... All the post I make about Mr. R and how very inlove I am with him... how well he treats me. I have never felt this safe, appreciated and loved in my life...
He has 20 years sober...
Now I dont know if he was like Jazz or not and Im aware that there is a chance of relasp... but I also know that nothing is guarenteed.... I could marry someone today that does not drink at all and in 15 years could be a full blown Alcoholic.
I have a friend who has been married for 30 years.... they have always had fun and enjoyed each other and have only been social drinkers... was never any indication of a possible problem in 27 years. He retired a few years ago, started drinking more often and today he is drinking from morning till night, having medical issues because of it and the marriage is not what I would call a marriage.
I know that Mr. R is aware, and there are no suprises and Im choosing this man.