Originally Posted by StandingStrong
Reading what I just wrote, I know that many disagree with how I feel. I've even had friends and family think I'm a little overboard on the subject, and that is okay. I just know how painful it can be - and I dont want to put myself even somewhat willingly into that sort of pain again.
My point was only to say it's an individual thing as far as worrying about a relapse. As raw as I
still am after my experience what would be my choice? If I went on a date and she had two vodka tonics, complained about credit card limits, and said her ex was a used car salesman, it would freak me right out and I would run for the hills screaming!
